Conversations with women can get out of control fast when you don�t know each other well, so try one of these five ways to kill the awkward silence on a first date before it becomes a problem. Instead of viewing awkward silence as a failure on your part, use it a chance to demonstrate your expertise when it comes to having a good time. Don�t forget that she doesn�t like the awkwardness either, and putting it in the past as quickly as you can will give you a step up when it comes to securing a second date.